I nga huinga ka taea e koe te rapu i nga korero penei "E hiahia ana ahau ki te whakaae i tetahi tangata i roto i te aroha, kaore au e mohio ana", "E wehi ana ahau ki te whakaae ki tetahi tangata i te aroha tuatahi." Ahakoa te ahua o te ahuareka, ahakoa te ahuatanga o te ahuareka, ko te wahine tino maia anake me te manawanui ka taea te whakaputa i nga kupu rongonui e toru "E aroha ana ahau ki a koe!" Ko te toenga o era ka toa i mua i te whakahua i o ratau whakaaro. Engari he mea tika ki te whakaae i te tangata i te aroha tuatahi, e kore ianei tenei e raruraru i tona taha me nga whakaaro e hiahia ana te kotiro ki te whakaiti i tona herekore? Mo etahi take, he maha nga taangata, e whaanui ana i te aroha ki te kotiro, kaore he waahi motuhake mo ratou, engari whakaarohia mehemea ka whakaatu mai tetahi kotiro i ona whakaaro, na, ko tana mahi e whai ake nei, he korero mo te marena? A kaore i te rite katoa mo tenei whanaketanga o nga mahi. Na reira, ko te patapatai o te mohio ki to hoa ko te korero, kaore he whakautu urupare, kaore he hiahia o tetahi. Hei karo i taua raruraru, ka mohio mahea me pehea ka pai ake ai te korero i o ratau whakaaro.
Ahea?
Na, he aha taku e rapu ai kia mohio ai koe ki te wa tika? Ko te tikanga, i roto i tona ahua, kaore pea he tangata e mau ana i te mahi (te ako), te matakitaki ranei i tetahi horopaki o tana huinga tino pai, ka tahuri tika kia mohio koe. Kaore i te mea kaore ia e aro ana, kaore ia e rongo ki a koe - he tangata ahurei ta te tangata ki te arotahi ki tetahi raruraru, tata tonu ki te kite i te ao e karapoti ana ia ratou. Na reira, ka tatari matou kia mutu te aroha o te hoa aroha, ka pai ki te whakaae ki a koe. I te ara, kua tutaki koe mo te wa roa? Whakaae, korero mo te whakaoho ohorere i roto i to hui tuarua, kaore e tika ana. Homai he wa ki te mea kua oti te whiriwhiri kia whakamahia ki to aroaro i roto i tona ora, me te korero anake mo tona aroha.
Pehea?
Ko wai to hoa, he mea ahuareka, he piripiri ranei, me te waahi mo nga tau e 5 e whai ake nei? Ka koa tetahi tangata ahuareka ki te whakatau koe ki te whakaae ki te aroha ki te ahuareka, i te whakarite i tetahi tipu rama rama ranei i te pikiniki i runga i te tuanui, i raro i te ra. Mena he mea tino pai te mea tino pai, me waiho he waahi ki te tepu mo ana rihi tino pai, ahakoa kaore koe e pai ki a raatau. Kaore he meneti e noho ana i te waahi, ko te tangata, ka tino kitea, ka kitea ko te whanaungatanga he putea korere, na he mea ke atu ki a koe, ko te mea nui kei roto i te ahua. Hei tauira, e koa ana ia mo tetahi mea, e korero ana mo te take mo tona ahua pai, me te whakanui i nga ahuareka pai ki a ia me tona whaaetanga (kaore e pokanoa, kia korero ia). He uaua ki te hopu i nga wheua o te wheua he uaua ki te hopu i nga wairua, a kaore e taea e nga rama rama te tiki, he aha te mahi? Korero atu ki a ia mo o ratau whakaaro, ehara i te kokopi-kore, engari i muri i te whakarite. Whakamoemititia ia mo tetahi mea, ka pai te tangata, ka wareware ki tana mea i muri mai i roto i te maatau mo tenei ra, a ka rite ki te whakarongo ki a koe. Ma te ara, ka taea e te pakihi kaore e tuhi i te SMS, i te karere ranei i runga i te ī-mēra.
I te tikanga, kaore tetahi e tango i to tika ki te whaki i to aroha ki te tamaiti i te huarahi taketake. Ko te whakaaro o te taketake he rereke mo te katoa, kei te miharo te tangata i tetahi haki e whakaatu ana i te aroha i tuhia e nga matapihi o tona moenga, a ka pa tetahi ki te keke a Valentine me nga kupu pai. Na reira ka whakaaro matou ka tata atu to hoa me te whiriwhiri i te huarahi e tika ana kia mohiohia.
Ko te tikanga, kaore he huarahi o te ao, he kupu tohutohu ranei me pehea e whakaae ai ki te tangata i roto i te aroha, na
A, mehemea kei a koe tonu te whakaaro o "E hiahia ana ahau ki te whakaae ki tetahi tangata i roto i te aroha, engari e wehi ana au", whakaarohia mehemea ka tino mohio koe ko to tangata tenei. Ki te penei, kaore he mea hei wehi, ka mohio ia, ka maioha. A, ki te mea he tautohetohe, ko te mohio ko te huarahi pai rawa hei whakatau i a raatau. A, ahakoa he rereke te ahua o te aroha ki a koe, ka koa koe - i mohio koe kaore e taea e koe te hanga hononga ki tenei tangata, inaianei, a, kaore i muri i etahi tau kua ngaro.