He pono, kei a tatou katoa i tetahi waahanga o ta tatou hononga pai me te hoa aroha e whakaaro ana mo te tiaki ia ratou, me pehea kaore i whanau i to tamaiti, tangata. Me pēhea te haere i roto i ngā āhuatanga katoa o te ora, tae atu ki te tino uaua - te ora me te noho pai me te hiahia?
E wehi ana ahau ki te whakapataritari i te tangata
Ahakoa te mea he rereke nga tangata katoa, engari kei a ratou katoa nga matea matua. No reira, i mua i to whakautu i te patai he aha te kotiro e tawai ana ki te tangata, he aha hoki te tangata e mauiui ana i te whanaungatanga, me mohio koe ki enei matea. Ka korerotia e matou ki a koe mo a raatau me te tuku tohutohu i ia mea.
1. Te wahine, te aroha me te rock'n'roll. I roto i tetahi whanaungatanga, ahakoa he pai te tangata ki te waiata, ki te waiata puoro, ki te R & B ranei, he mea nui ki te katoa te wawata, te aroha me te aroha. Na reira:
- kia ataahua, kia ataahua, kia ataahua, ahakoa o to ahua mo te rangi me tetahi atu mea.
- Ko koe he kotiro, ko te ahuatanga o te wahine me te aroha, na reira e whakamarama i tenei aroha, kaore hoki e pa ki te whakaatu o te aroha me te aroha ki a koe.
- hoatu he wa ki te whakawhanake i a koe, he tokorua, i roto i nga mea whaitake, ka awhina tenei ki a koe kia piri atu ki a koe ano, kaore i te rereke.
2. I haere mai ia, i kite, i toa. Ko tetahi tangata i runga i te natura he toa, ahakoa, ahakoa te maha o nga tau i noho tahi ai ia, me noho tonu ia ki ona waewae, kaua e noho. Me tino mohio koe he tino hononga ki a koe ana mahi katoa me te hiahia ki te hopu me te toa.
- Kaua e hae. E mohio ana koe, he ahua pai tenei, kaua e mataara i te tangata, engari kia mataara koe, ka aru te tangata ia koe. Koinei te take.
- kaua e moemoea. Homai ki a koe te tika ki te kore e taea te whakaaro, kia pai ake te tangata, he aha e pai ana ki a ia kia kite i roto i a koe nga waahanga hou.
- kaua e patene. Kaore e taea te pupuri i te whanaungatanga, ki te karanga koe ia ia i nga meneti e rima, ka kino koe ki a ia.
3. Te whakaae, te mohio me te hiahia. I konei e korero ana matou mo te taha hinengaro me te whakaaro o te wairua o to tangata. Ahakoa he toa, he hoia, he rangatira ranei o te roopu mafia, kei a ia tetahi waahanga hinengaro, me te hiahia ano hoki ia ki a koe.
- kaua e tuku. Tangohia mo wai ko wai, kaua hoki e tohu ki ona ngoikoretanga mo tetahi mea, ka wiri tona kaha ake, engari he aha e hiahia ai koe ki te tangata e kore e mohio ki a ia ano? Mena kei a ia ano etahi he, whakatikaia ia hei wahine.
- whakahonore i to mea whiriwhiri, tohauru ki a ia, me te whakanui ia ia, hoatu ki a ia nga parirau me te faauru mo te mahi o nga mahi nunui.
- kia tino mohio koe ki te whakaatu ki te tangata he mea nui ki a koe i roto i to oranga, te hiahia mo tona aroaro me te mea nui.
Ki te ngoikore tetahi tangata i te wahine
Me tohu he rereke nga tangata katoa. No te mea, me hiahia te hunga whiriwhiri ki te aroaro o nga wahanga e toru i roto i te hononga, engari i te wa ano ka nui ake, ka iti ake etahi o era, he mea tino takitahi.
I tenei wa, ka mohio koe ehara i te maatau o to whanaungatanga, kei wareware tonu ake ki nga kupu, penei "kua ngoikore te kotiro ki tetahi tangata", he mea tika kia mahi i te ra i roto i te ra. A kaore he tangata, he whaea, he papa, kahore he hoa pai e taea te mahi mo koe. He mahi tenei, he mahi pakeke, engari ki te mea kua rite koe ki te mahi i nga mea katoa i ou ringa, ka koa koe i to raau oranga tahi!