Ka uiui au mehemea he kotiro ataahua kei te tuwhera, kei te pai ranei, ka kitea ranei he tangata ata noho? Mena kei te whakama koe, kei te tino raruraru me te whakaaro noa ki a koe, me te hiahia kia pai ake, kia pai, kia harikoa, ka mohio koe - ka taea e koe. Ahakoa i te tuatahi, e kore e ngawari ki te whakarereke i nga tikanga me te whanonga.
He aha e hiahia ana koe ki te mahi mo tenei?
Tuatahi - ki te mohio ki nga mea e kore e taea e koe te ahuareka ake, me te atawhai me te pehea e mahi tahi ai koe ki a ia. Ko te nuinga, he hoa koe ki a koe e ahuareka ana, e waatea ana hoki mo tetahi kaupapa. Engari i konei ko te whakawhitiwhiti korero me nga tangata kore e mohio ana, e kore rawa hoki e tata ana ki te taone, he raruraru, he whakama, he wehi. He aha ta koe e mahi ana i roto i aua take? A ape i te whakawhitinga korero? Whakaorangia koe e koe ki te awhina me te wahangu, tata ki te kore korero i tetahi mea?
Mena ko tenei, ka kore e taea e koe te wikitoria te ahuareka me te wehewehe. Ka uaua ki a koe ki te whakawhitiwhiti korero, ka kore noa iho he whanonga tuumata me te taiao e tu ake ana i runga ake i te wa.
Na reira, kotahi anake te ara hei whakapiki ake i te korero - kaore e waiho i te korero, he maha tonu e mahi ana, engari ka timata ki te whakawhitiwhiti korero ki te hunga e kite ana koe i nga ra katoa, engari kaua e nui te korero. Ko te tika anake.
Me pēhea te ako ki te noho tahi?
1. Ako i te kainga. Whakaarohia kei te whakarite koe ki te korero. Whakaritea etahi kupu poto ka taea e koe te tīmata i te korerorero. Whakaarohia te aha e taea e koe te uiui ki te tangata e whakawhitiwhiti ana koe. A ka korero i nga mea katoa i roto i te reo ataahua, me te ahuareka, kia mataara i tana ngana me te kaha. Ko nga "akoranga" o te kainga ka awhina i a koe, ka korero koe i nga mea katoa e hiahia ana koe, i runga i te maia me te marie.
Awhina ia koe me nga whakahianga, nga korero pakiwaitara, nga kupu whakaari ranei. Kia mahara nui ki a ratau me te whakauru ia ratou ki roto i te whakawhitinga korero i tetahi waahi whaitake. Kohia i roto i to "putea poaka" nga mea katoa i tohua ai to hiahia ki a koe kia kata - he rite ki era atu tangata.
2. Te ataata. E mohio ana koe he maha nga wheako he rite ki a koe? A kaore pea ratou e mohio ki ta ratau mahi. Na to atawhai me to ataata ka awhina ia ratou, ka awhina i te awangawanga.
3. A ape i nga kupu mo te monosyllabic. Te whakautu i nga uiuinga o mua - "He aha koe?" Ranei "E pai ana, he aha nga mea hou ki a koe?" - ngana kia kaua e korero "Normal" me "Ko nga mea katoa i nga wa katoa". Kahore he mea pera kaore he mea hou e tupu i roto i to oranga! Korerotia mai ki a koe te pehea i mahia ai e koe, kihai i mahi i to whare mahi, whakamatautau ranei, he aha i tirotirohia e koe i runga i te TV, i kitea ranei i runga i te Ipurangi. Me ui koe: he aha te ra, he aha nga mahere mo apopo, i kii mai ai to hoa me to pirinee mai i nga waahi.
4. Maea ki te whakarongo me te whakahihiri. Ehara i te korero noa i te korerorero. kei hea te mea nui ki te ako ki te whakarongo me te whai whakaaro ki o raatau hoa! Ko to maatau hoa aroha ki te whai waahi me te mohio, te aroha me te ahua atawhai! Whakaatuhia te hiahia, whakarongo, me te whakarahi ano ia koe: "He pono? Koinei! "," He pono? I korero koe ko koe ano? "Or" He nui! "," Cool! ". Me ata tika koe ki te mea he korero teka noa taau korero, ka kitea.
5. Whakawhitiwhiti! Kia waiho he kotiro tino pai - te tikanga ki te whakawhitiwhitinga, i te wa e whai waahi ana koe. He rite ki te ako i tetahi atu reo - ki te mutu to korero i runga i te reira, ka ngaro koe i te mohio.
Tuatahi, ka kite koe i te kaha o roto, na ka korero tahi me ia "o waho". Engari me nga waahanga hou ka nui ake te korero.
Kati noa te wehi o etahi atu, kaore ano hoki kia tino rite, pera me te whakama me te manukanuka. Kaore pea ratou e mohio ki te peke atu i tenei, engari e mohio ana koe!